Baby and Love

The day Aaron was born was one of the happiest days of my life, no doubt. Ju and I were both really looking forward to it too... And Aaron turned out to be like the cutest little thing ever! Whenever people ask me what surprised me the most about having a baby.... i would always say that I really misses Aaron when I'm away, maybe even more so than I missed Ju.

But the thing is... I really miss the days when it was just me and Ju. We never have time for each other anymore. Whenever baby's awake... well, we have to entertain him, haha. Else he cries... When he's sleeping... We sleep too because we just feel exhausted, especially Ju. I really wish that Ju and I can be like before... Do fun things together and do romantic things together. I guess my friend Xiaolu said it best that you are never really ready for a baby... It's life altering to say the least.

When you get married, your life isn't just you anymore. It's you and your spouse. When you have a kid.... Both of your lives are your kid's.